Tuesday, 30 December 2008

How To Get My Ex Back Easily

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Perhaps you have broken up but still care deeply for you ex. Therefore, you still want to get your ex back. So, how can I get an ex back easily?

Well, depending on your situation, it is hard to say whether getting your ex back will be easy or not. If both of you fell out simply because of a minor argument, perhaps it will be much easier to get your ex back. Maybe a sincere apology will be able to help you get your lover back.

However, your situation is probably not as minor as the one mentioned above. In this case, a simple apology may not help you too much. So, what should you do instead?

Well, there are a couple of things that you can do, but most importantly, you should be aware of what are the things that you should not do. This is because from my knowledge, doing those things not only does not help improve the situation, but tend to make things worse.

For example, you should not try to argue with your ex over the break up. Arguing is not going to help you get him/her back. In fact, it may just push him/her further away.

Another thing you do not want to do is to call your ex too often. Maybe he/she did not pick up the phone. So, naturally, you have the tendency to call him/her again and again until he/she picks up the phone. Don't do that.

The reason why you don't want to do the two things mentioned above is because those are all signs of desperation. You don't want to show your ex that you are desperate. By doing that, it will make it much harder to get your lover back.

Friday, 26 December 2008

When Your Manhood Get Challenged

Have you ever had your manhood challenged by a bad mannered or abusive woman?�Then read on.

Deal with her masculinity tests�Beware of generalization.

The fact that a women misbehave with you once does not mean she’s an abusive type.

Indeed there are some cases when you meet a woman and you could say she's nice in general but from time to time she seems to get a little bit cranky to say the least.

Actually, she's not misbehaving. She's actually testing your manhood.

I wrote on several occasions that as a man you have to be able to demonstrate leadership abilities on a constant basis with women. And when you slip away from your masculine core, that's when a woman will start to boss you around as a way of re-implementing polarity in your relationship.

What should you do? Simple. Retake your leadership position. Be a man. Lead the way.

She's a real nutcase In some other cases, you will encounter women who are real pain in the a... Technically we sometimes refer to those women as strong low self-esteem types.

How do you spot them?

Quite simple. You want to witness any sign that indicates that the woman thinks she's worthless.

Signs such as “I have a fat ass” or "I cannot be loved".

If those are recurrent signs, you have a low self-esteem type on your hands.

How do you deal with them?

Well if you're not very experienced with this kind of woman, and if she's a real nutcase, my top recommendation would simply be to next her. And no it is not acting as a coward to do that. I'd actually say it's a sign of wisdom because you will lose a lot of time trying to deal with her.

If she's not too much of a serious case, and if you're quite experienced, you can have fun with her.

In all cases, I strongly advise not to go into relationships with this kind of women. Why? Because if she's pathologically bad, and if you want to share your life with her, you will have surrender to the fact that she will never give you the chance of being nice to her without attempting to cut your balls when you do that.

No Mister Nice Guy

With nutcases don't do the basic mistake of being too nice to them!

If such a woman complains that she has a fat ass… agree with her!

You have to show power. Especially abusive types are not able to understand things like "Morals". Forget morals, forget supporting those kind of women.

Instead, if you want to win you got to do the only rational thing to do in this situation: play with their emotions.

Play the bad guy. Target first her mind and only after her pussy.

But play a even worse bad guy than she's being a bad woman. What's the first quality of a bad guy? To me it's unpredictability. Play a bad guy whose moves she cannot see in advance. A guy whom she will not be able to put in the box of any frame.

Reverse the game as a way of keeping them on their toes, just like they use to do with desperately nice guys. Don't take those women seriously. At no point shouldn't they be able to put you in a box or role, be it the provider, the nice guy or the bad boy.

Final advice, don't invest too much energy into her. The meaning of those women being abusive is usually to have you invest energy into them and control you.

Disinvest yourself progressively and… eventually leave at some point.

Sunday, 21 December 2008

Free Online Dating - Who Pays for the Web Sites Even If Its Free

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There are always costs associated with establishing and maintaining websites and you may have wondered how the free dating websites are supported. They may have several ways of becoming funded, some more effective than others. In order to maintain a zero cost for members, here are some of the ways that funds are accumulated to pay for the site.

Businesses sponsor sites

Free dating websites are often sponsored by businesses. In this instance, a specific product may not be noted and promoted, it is just a general sponsorship by the business. There may be a small discreet statement somewhere on the page, or the business or organization may trumpet its sponsorship through banner headlines, logos or by using other methods. Usually the business that sponsors a site will be one that has some connection or relationship to the subject of the site. For example, a dating site may be sponsored by a 'Love Boat' cruise lines.

Commercial sites with advertising

Free dating websites are sometimes paid for by the sales of advertising of products or services online. Because large and active web sites have a lot of visitors who would see the advertising and potentially would use links to purchase the advertised products, commercial sites like to advertise on one of the free dating sites. This makes commercial advertising on a free site a good deal for the business or organization. It is also a great opportunity for the members to save money on products or services linked to the free web site. There may be discounts offered because of the click through location, for example.

Business creates the site

Another way in which businesses help to pay for free dating websites is by actually creating the web site. For example, the owners of a cruise ship create a dating web site. While there is no direct advertising, the business can place information on the dating site that leads visitors and members to use the products of the company that created and funded the web site. This process is slightly different than a sponsorship in that the business has the direct control over content when they actually create the site.

Individuals in a group effort

A group of people can get together either deliberately or as a somewhat organic process and put together free dating websites. This may be a public service project, it can serve as a demonstration of how to create and maintain a great web site or it may be done just for fun because a group of people wanted to expand their dating opportunities. For example, a site could be put together by a group of senior citizens in an area to promote dating amongst themselves and to let other seniors know where to come for fun and online dating.

Lead in sites

Sometimes one of the paid sites creates the free site as a lead in site. In this instance, the paid site doesn't have to keep hounding the members to purchase an upgrade. Lead in sites can draw free dating websites members into the ranks of the paid members by placement of interesting and intriguing advertisements on the free site. Sometimes a smaller site that could be considered a niche site can serve as a lead in to one of the larger and more active sites. In this instance, neither site is a paid site and are funded through businesses or advertising sponsorship.

Wednesday, 17 December 2008

Online Dating Exposed For Anybody

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Due to some pre conceived notions, online dating �has always been related to something forbidding, substandard and even tough nut to crack. But as a matter of fact it's all there in your perception of looking at it. There are some ways which can give you a hassle free dating experience.

Maintain your Individuality: There is an inherent tendency among women to portray themselves as someone whom, according to them, men find appealing. This is a wrong approach to start a personal interaction. Present yourself with your actual being, not in somebody else's get up.

Give more preference to your date: It is advisable that you give more importance to your potential partner over yourself. There are many who feel very conscious about themselves in terms of their looks, eating habits, way of talking and other related social behavior.

Be Honest - Honesty should set the foundation of every relationship. Most importantly you should be honest to yourself. You should neither lie to yourself about your passions nor to your partner. They help to define you.

This does not imply that you should completely overlook yourself. However, if you give more attention to your partner and be a good listener, then you will be able to respond and react more spontaneously and naturally. Your date will appreciate this quality.

One should also try and avoid lying to themselves. One must be sure of the kind of relationship and person they want. Unless a person is confident about his or her own requirements, he or she will never be in a satisfying relationship. One must realize that it is all right if their requirements from a relationship are different than others.

Do away with all your guilt conscience. Right or wrong is a relative concept. Besides when your personal needs are at stake, you can easily rule them out. If you are inclined towards this man, let him know right now. If you dont reveal yourself now, emotions will remain within you even after you get committed to someone else. Online dating is not mere a game of lies, it means much more.

Therefore it is always better not to put up any act to please your partner. Do not think whether it is right or wrong, because there is no right or wrong when your well being is concerned.

Being less self-conscious can help you have a good time. One can do this by concentrating on their date. Instead of blabbering away, one should listen and respond accordingly. This rule applies for dating over the Internet as well.

That certainly does not mean you are going to sacrifice your identity for the person concerned. But for a smooth conversation it is important to listen, so that you are never at loss of words.

This is because it is very essential to gauge your personal feelings and preferences so that you are able to express it properly to your potential soul mate. Online dating should be taken seriously just like any other form of dating as it has the potential to form long lasting relationships. Thus, with the help of the above-mentioned tips, you will be able to locate your ideal partner and establish a long-term relationship.

Sunday, 7 December 2008

Bondage Lovers Happier Than Normal Sex Counterparts!

Melbourne: Contrary to the general assumption that people involved in bondage and discipline and sadomasochism BDSM are sexually deficient, a new sex survey has now shows that such people are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practise “normal” sex.

The study of 20,000 Australians by public health researchers at the University of New South Wales has revealed that two per cent of adult Australians regularly partake in sadomasochism and dominance and submission-type sexual role-play.

The findings suggest that these people do not do so in reaction to sexual abuse or because they are "sexually deficient" in some way.

"Our findings support the idea that bondage and discipline and sadomasochism (BDSM) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority," News.com.au quoted Associate Professor Juliet Richters and her colleagues as writing in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

The researchers even said that the practice was more common among gay, lesbian and bisexual people, and that participants were more likely to have been more sexually adventurous in other ways.

"However, they were no more likely to have been coerced into sexual activity and were not significantly more likely to be unhappy or anxious," said Prof Richters, author of the book Doing It Down Under.

The findings also suggested that men who took parting in such acts might be happier, as they were found to score significantly lower on a scale of psychological distress than other men.

Though the researchers did not study why that was the case, they suspected that it might simply be that they were more in harmony with themselves because they were into something unusual and are comfortable with that.

Prof Richters said that the findings went against professional views of BDSM.

"People with these sexual interests have long been seen by medicine and the law as, at best, damaged and in need of therapy and, at worst, dangerous and in need of legal regulation," she said.

She also revealed that there was an assumption that those involved in BDSM were sexually deficient in some way, "and need particularly strong stimuli such as being beaten or tied up to become aroused".

She expressed hope that her findings would help change those stereotypes.



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