Wednesday, 17 December 2008

Online Dating Exposed For Anybody

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Due to some pre conceived notions, online dating �has always been related to something forbidding, substandard and even tough nut to crack. But as a matter of fact it's all there in your perception of looking at it. There are some ways which can give you a hassle free dating experience.

Maintain your Individuality: There is an inherent tendency among women to portray themselves as someone whom, according to them, men find appealing. This is a wrong approach to start a personal interaction. Present yourself with your actual being, not in somebody else's get up.

Give more preference to your date: It is advisable that you give more importance to your potential partner over yourself. There are many who feel very conscious about themselves in terms of their looks, eating habits, way of talking and other related social behavior.

Be Honest - Honesty should set the foundation of every relationship. Most importantly you should be honest to yourself. You should neither lie to yourself about your passions nor to your partner. They help to define you.

This does not imply that you should completely overlook yourself. However, if you give more attention to your partner and be a good listener, then you will be able to respond and react more spontaneously and naturally. Your date will appreciate this quality.

One should also try and avoid lying to themselves. One must be sure of the kind of relationship and person they want. Unless a person is confident about his or her own requirements, he or she will never be in a satisfying relationship. One must realize that it is all right if their requirements from a relationship are different than others.

Do away with all your guilt conscience. Right or wrong is a relative concept. Besides when your personal needs are at stake, you can easily rule them out. If you are inclined towards this man, let him know right now. If you dont reveal yourself now, emotions will remain within you even after you get committed to someone else. Online dating is not mere a game of lies, it means much more.

Therefore it is always better not to put up any act to please your partner. Do not think whether it is right or wrong, because there is no right or wrong when your well being is concerned.

Being less self-conscious can help you have a good time. One can do this by concentrating on their date. Instead of blabbering away, one should listen and respond accordingly. This rule applies for dating over the Internet as well.

That certainly does not mean you are going to sacrifice your identity for the person concerned. But for a smooth conversation it is important to listen, so that you are never at loss of words.

This is because it is very essential to gauge your personal feelings and preferences so that you are able to express it properly to your potential soul mate. Online dating should be taken seriously just like any other form of dating as it has the potential to form long lasting relationships. Thus, with the help of the above-mentioned tips, you will be able to locate your ideal partner and establish a long-term relationship.

Sunday, 7 December 2008

Bondage Lovers Happier Than Normal Sex Counterparts!

Melbourne: Contrary to the general assumption that people involved in bondage and discipline and sadomasochism BDSM are sexually deficient, a new sex survey has now shows that such people are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practise “normal” sex.

The study of 20,000 Australians by public health researchers at the University of New South Wales has revealed that two per cent of adult Australians regularly partake in sadomasochism and dominance and submission-type sexual role-play.

The findings suggest that these people do not do so in reaction to sexual abuse or because they are "sexually deficient" in some way.

"Our findings support the idea that bondage and discipline and sadomasochism (BDSM) is simply a sexual interest or subculture attractive to a minority," News.com.au quoted Associate Professor Juliet Richters and her colleagues as writing in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

The researchers even said that the practice was more common among gay, lesbian and bisexual people, and that participants were more likely to have been more sexually adventurous in other ways.

"However, they were no more likely to have been coerced into sexual activity and were not significantly more likely to be unhappy or anxious," said Prof Richters, author of the book Doing It Down Under.

The findings also suggested that men who took parting in such acts might be happier, as they were found to score significantly lower on a scale of psychological distress than other men.

Though the researchers did not study why that was the case, they suspected that it might simply be that they were more in harmony with themselves because they were into something unusual and are comfortable with that.

Prof Richters said that the findings went against professional views of BDSM.

"People with these sexual interests have long been seen by medicine and the law as, at best, damaged and in need of therapy and, at worst, dangerous and in need of legal regulation," she said.

She also revealed that there was an assumption that those involved in BDSM were sexually deficient in some way, "and need particularly strong stimuli such as being beaten or tied up to become aroused".

She expressed hope that her findings would help change those stereotypes.



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