Stay Out from the Competitors

You may think that the most challenging aspect of meeting women on Adult Friend Finder is writing a striking profile or composing the perfect email. In fact, the greatest challenge you are likely to face is stay out from the competitors.

There are many more male members on Adult Friend Finder than female. As a result, most of the women find themselves inundated with winks, messages and friend requests each week. If you want your profile to stand out in this crowd it can’t be merely great – it has to be the best it can be.

Set yourself up for success by scoping out the competition. Discovering other men’s smoothest moves and cleverest lines will ensure that you can always stay ahead of the game. But there’s more to this trick than viewing a few of the popular men’s profiles. If you want to learn how other guys are getting the girls, you have to get them to show you – and that means going undercover.

* Role Play

If you’ve ever wondered how other men get a girl’s attention, it’s time to find out. And the simplest way to do this is to set up a female profile. New women on AFF are inundated with male attention and your make-believe lady will be no different – within a matter of days you will have received enough emails to answer every question you ever had about the competition’s techniques.

* Catch their Eye

Start by finding a suitable photograph. Check out the pictures local women use and try to emulate them. Are they taken at home or in a studio? Are the women fully clothed or naked? If you want your picture to be convincing, follow their lead and opt for something similar. Do ensure that your picture comes from an open source website as reproducing copyrighted photos could land you in legal trouble.

* Writing your Profile

Each Adult Friend Finder profile starts with some basic questions. Ensure that the physical attributes you list match the photograph you have chosen. Beyond that, you can be as imaginative as you like, but you may find writing your longer descriptions easier if your female persona is of a similar age and background to yourself.

When it comes to composing your full profile, do invest some time and energy into it. Look at how real women describe themselves and consider the kinds of information they include. Remember that you are trying to find out how other men respond to genuine women’s profiles, so be thorough - and all this study of women’s profiles will help you with your real profile. By creating hobbies and interests, quirks and opinions for your character you are giving the guys something to work with, and will be able to see exactly how attentive and inventive they can be.

* Consider your Emails

As a new female Adult Friend Finder member, you shouldn’t have long to wait before receiving your first few emails. Take the time to read these messages thoroughly and compare them to your own. What are other men doing better than you and what are they doing worse?

Keep a list of anything the other men get right. If you read a fantastic subject line, note it down. If you come across somebody with an engaging writing style, analyze how well he refers to the profile and what sort of information he gives about himself. Other guys will have great gimmicks that may never have occurred to you, so pay attention and be prepared to steal their good ideas.

On the other hand, a lot of men get it very wrong. Are there subject lines which fail to grab your attention? Are some of the emails too sparse, too sleazy or far too full on? Seeing which mistakes other men are making will allow you to avoid ever doing the same.

* Check yourself Out

Do a search for men in your area and see how your real profile compares. Ask yourself, if a woman was to browse this list, would your profile stand out?

Perhaps the other guys have better photos than you do. If this is the case, get your camera out and get to work. Look at the angles and poses the other men use and don’t be afraid to copy them. Shots taken from just above eye level are often more striking, while a headless torso can seem impersonal and off-putting.

Bear in mind that men at the top of the list have paid for an upgraded membership. If you have to scroll through several pages of eligible guys to find yourself, paying for a better position may be a worthwhile investment.

* Keep it Up

To get the most from this recon mission, don’t delete your female profile right away. The first week your profile is live is likely to be the busiest, but the following few weeks can be valuable when it comes to monitoring the competition.

Some men will wait until the initial rush has died down before contacting you. Ask yourself if an email sent in the second or third week has more impact than those sent straight away.

Other men will continue to chase you for a response. Look at the ways in which they do this. Do they remain polite and inviting, or do some become aggressive?

Plunder other men’s ideas and learn their lessons for them. By continuing to study their best tricks and worst mistakes on a weekly basis, you can ensure that you are always stay out from the competitors.


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