What Doing If She Doesn’t Send You Her Number

Every so often you’ll come across a woman who flat out ignores all of your requests for her phone number. This may not seem unreasonable to you. You understand that she doesn’t want to give her personal details to a total stranger, and you think that you can make your plans by email. But believe me: if you cannot get a girl’s phone number, you cannot get her into bed.

Women who won’t give you their phone number will not go through with sleeping with you. A woman who does not feel sufficiently comfortable with you to give you her contact details is not going to feel sufficiently comfortable with you to strip off and screw you.

You may make arrangements by email, but it is highly unlikely that she will turn up. If you are unable to phone her to find out where she is, she will feel free to stand you up. You will find yourself alone in the bar with an empty hotel room charged to your credit card.

So how do you avoid this? Luckily enough I’ve had a few years to test and fine-tune this part of the Adult Friend Finder, so pay attention and get ready to learn how to MAX Adult Finder.

Start off by not despairing. Very few women will give you their number the first time you ask. Some women don’t want to appear too easy, others need a little reassurance that you are in fact the lovely man you seem to be. This is understandable.

However, if you’ve asked for her number two or more times with no success, you are going to have to take action.

The Email
You need to send her a message which addresses the issue head on, but which maintains the sort of light and approachable tone which women find attractive.

Begin your message in the usual way, with a greeting and appreciation for her previous email, but do not waste your time with small talk. By getting straight to the point you will make it clear to her that unless she provides you with some contact details your current flirtation has no future.

You do still want to fuck her, though, so don’t become unpleasant. Instead, invent an amusing reason why she may not have given you her number and tease her with the possibility.

Here is an example:

“Hi Karen – Thanks for your last message. I’ve got to admit, I’ve only just realized what’s going on with you. I’m really embarrassed by how long it’s taken me to click that your phone’s been cut off! But you shouldn’t feel ashamed if you’re having money troubles – if you’d only told me I would have brought round soup and a portable radio to keep you going! Well, if I can be of any help to you in this troubled time, let me know; I’d gladly buy you a coffee some weekend. You’re in my thoughts, -Rob”

What to do if there’s still no response
Unfortunately, there are some women out there who simply will not give you their number. There is no way to spot them in advance, and we all encounter one from time to time.

Some of them are married women who have no intention of cheating on their husbands, but do get a kick out of male attention. Others love email flirtations and cyber-sex, but lack the courage to meet a man in person. Whatever her reasons, do not waste any more time pursuing her.

Adult Friend Finder is crawling with horny women who genuinely do want to meet up with a guy who knows how to approach them and make them feel comfortable enough to actually have sex. If you have been unlucky enough to talk to a tease this time, cease contact with her and move on. There are plenty more women on, so move on and find somebody new to pursue.


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